meltdown over.

I have to admit, after a good long cry which I very rarely do. It seems to have eased my mind a bit in some odd way. I am trying to set-up the best system to help my sister as best as I can and if needed as fast as I can(since she lives far away). it's still in its beginning stages so yeah...sorry for the public meltdown. I will leave the previous post up because I am still lost on some things so if you think you can help then please give your guidance. I will accept what you have to offer if anything.